Taking care of business

What others do is none of my business.

What others think is none of my business.

What people think of me is none of my business.

How the confident live... good luck to you if you tick all these boxes ~!

I read this great blog yesterday on the Internet, scary but it really made me sit up.

It is a list of 13 things confident people do differently

Why was it scary? Because it was so glaringly obvious that I am NOT confident.

It is none of your business

QUESTION LADIES: and I should say GUYS because I have seen guys do this too.

Why do we go Pain shopping?

Why do we ask, look and preety much go out of our way to find out information that is going to hurt us ?

Woman - you hold the keys to the universe

Woman: You hold the keys to the Universe

From your womb came mankind. And yet .... what are we today? Who are we today ?

Do we really know our own true value. Do we give ourselves away too freely. Do we understand how sacred our souls, minds and bodies are?

Coming out of Withdrawal

Your either an addict - or your not.
You either understand or you don't.

You either know someone who is or you don't.
You either have compassion or you don't.

The Gift of Withdrawal

There is a list as long as my arm of things that happen to you when you put down addictions - the list of withdrawal.

Previously, I wouldn't have known - because I wasn't very good at putting my addictions down. I liked to keep my hands firmly on the wheel. Didn't do me any good. 

It's a bit nuts but ....

23rd MAY 2015

Today I did something my daughter wanted. To go to a beach club while on holidays. I admit I did protest in the morning - can we please only stay for a few hours ?  I felt that longer than that would be a bit much.

Well that was seven hours ago.....  and here we still are. I've read a book, swam, hung with my daughter and pretty much did what I loved.  I could be myself.... Hang with the world, relax and lay on my rock and baste in the sun. Not wallow under my rock.

And now I'm delighted. Because we set out early, we got prime posy in front of the infinity pool with the beach right behind. Lying on deck chairs in the sun, reading, swimming and hanging with strangers lapping up the same luxury of life. 

I've contemplated for ages what will be revealed when I peel back the layers. Who am I ? What do I enjoy ? What types of people do I like?   What things do I like to do in my spare time?

I've learnt this week I love love love riding motor bikes. I love the freedom of it. I love massages. I love being frugal - it makes me appreciate things more. I love reading, I love this new for me concept of reading from an i-pad. I'm an I-pad Virgin. ;)

So there you go. I am starting to enjoy myself :)